
Anonymous
10 hours ago
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I truly dont see how telling him you dont like his sister will help; I actually think it would make things worse as he would feel attacked, besides, if you think about it, when was the last time you felt good about someone putting down your loved ones or your dreams, or the things you like. My point is this, the way to catch bees is with howney, so I recommend you find out what it is that motivates your partner to be more attentive to his sister than you so you can understand their relationship without putting it down. As far as your part to make him be more attentive towards you, I recommend you let him know that you are not trying to replace his sister, but you are his partner and he should give you the place you deserve as such. We all have what is called a love tank, and many time that tank is empty, and the only way it can be filled is if we let our partner know what our love language is, the 5 love languages are: gifts, quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, and physical touch. If you are not speaking your partners love language, perhaps he is not motivated to speak yours either, for example, my love language is words of affirmation: I like when people aknowledge things I did and compliments me on them, my wife's on the other hand is acts of service, she loves it when I do things for her, so I could talk to har all day or spend quality time with her and she is happy, but if I do things for her like bringing her a glass of water, or doing the dishes, etc, she puts me in a pedestal, me on the other hand, could care less about acts of service caus it is not my love language, so when my wife tells me, honey, you did an awesome job with this or that... my love tank is full. So, first of all dont worry about his sister, that is the least of your problems, the question is, do you know and are you speaking his love language? and it sounds to me like your love language is acts of service, you need to let him know that. even though we all have all five love languages, we all have one that is stronger than the others.
I hope this helps... and please... dont hurt his sister. lol...
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