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hello thr...ur situation seems to be really complicated..in ths ca...

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 21:28:06 GMT

hello thr...ur situation seems to be really complicated..in ths case my advice would be tht itz better to leave him coz juz ask a quest to urself...WHTZ D POINT U R BEING WITH A GUY LIKE THS??thr is no sincerity n truthful in a relationship...so at d end of d day u r juz being a loser n a slave to him...rather than being with a guy like tht u could rather be alone without any probs..n u might as well get peace of mind...i would advise u to go out n mit others people n share ur probs wit them if they r willing to listen...alwiz remember thrz not oni 1 fish in d pond!!!take care...

thtz d oni advise i can say...juz sit n think...m alwiz here to he...

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 21:29:59 GMT

thtz d oni advise i can say...juz sit n think...m alwiz here to hear ur probz...bye

His poor treatment is something the two of you could work on toget...

Mon, 26 May 2008 17:50:38 GMT

His poor treatment is something the two of you could work on together that is, if he is actually willing on working out the problems with you. All couples have times where they drift apart, take each other for granted, etc. Couples' therapy can help you two resolves some of these issues in a non-biased atmopshere, with a professional who can help the two of you learn how to communicate effectively and lovingly. As for the cheating, therapy could help - again, both of you must be willing to re-commit to your marriage for this to work. Your first concern should always be for your own health and safety. If he is abusive, GET OUT. Stay with friends, tell your family what's going on, have a meeting with yourspiritual advisor if you have one, build a support network. Get a restraining order and do not drop it for anything! Do everything you can to protect yourself and get away, but abuse will never get better - it will only ever get worse. He's denying that he's cheating, so asking him point-blank if he's using protection will get you no where, but honey, you need to take care of yourself. It's more than your marriage at stake - it's your health and safety and possibly your life that's at risk. Go to the doctor's, explain your situation, and get tested for everything. Good luck! My thoughts are with you!

Gerrra liiiife.

Thu, 29 May 2008 18:56:52 GMT

Gerrra liiiife.

You must not only have pride in yourself, but be a positive role m...

Fri, 30 May 2008 08:42:25 GMT

You must not only have pride in yourself, but be a positive role model to your children. Would you want the same for your daughter? Then you must make a stand and show her that its not aceptable to be treated by a man in this way and that you must keep your dignity. If you dont, sadly she may go on to get someone the same as she will think it as normal behaviour.