I feel your pain. My love, Lauren, broke up with me 2 days ago. I feel just as you do. I'm a guy, so i dont know if ill be much help, but it seems like you want to get back together. I'm trying to do the same thing. You should apologize for whatever went wrong, or whatever made you brake up. How much time you have to do this depends on if he has gotten over you yet. DONT GIVE UP TALKING TO HIM. Thats crucial, if you stop talking, its well and truly over. Talk to him, apologize, cry with him and share after-emotions, or anything that might make him or you feel better. Hope this helps. -David, a 14-year old 8th grader.