im a virgin 21, but to the guy who said he wouldn't marry/date a virgin becuase of a lack of sexual apatite...how does that make any logical sense, are we,as a collective group suppose to go out and have random sex to prove that we're sexual creatures or have any sexual drive? In all reality i've probably meat 0.001% of the male population, and from that population am i suppose to find some one trust worthy enough to have sex with or just randomly choose one just to lose my virginity? Id rather wait and see, find some one i love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Plus, i know people who have waited and they have a large sexual apatite. *sighs* oh well, your loss.

I am a 29 year old virgin/porstar. I will be 30 in August. I never would have waited if the chance was there in my teen years, luckily somehow I didn't get the opportunity. Now I realize that it is a gift to be shared with one person. However, I have seen my fair share of Porn. It is bad stuff. If you look at porn and you are a virgin; think again. Just like an Asterict by Barry Bonds homerun record is the virgin guy who looks at porn. You are not a virgin, you are a virgin/pornstar. So all of you people who look at porn, get rid of your computer, demolish it. Mine is somewhere in the bottom of the river. Yeah!!!

good for you, i did the same. it is a very great thing to do and the right thing to do. stay strong and you will always be proud of yourself for it. not to mention respect yourself for it, and your husband will too. respect is one of the foundations of a good marriage. you are allready preparing for a good one by what you are doing! good job

Yes, I am virgin. I am in twenties, but didn't ever let anyone touch me..or even tried to lure someone. I have some religious beliefs and I am happy to follow them. I believe, it's always good to wait till u r married...and then u can enjoy ur sexual life for the whole life.

I think that you have the right choice to want until marriage. I'm still a virgin because I am a Christian and sex should stay between a husband and wife. I'm 25 and may not have found the right woman yet, but I will still want for marriage. It's a gift that can only be given once.

I'm a virgin at twenty, not from lack of offers or sex drive, but because I haven't found anyone that I would trust to have my first time with. It is kind of an awkward thing - hey, wanna have casual sex so that I can not be a virgin anymore, but I want no strings attached! One night stand only! I'm attracted to older men, as I find most men at my age are less than perfect maturity wise. Most older men that are attracted to women my age are creeps/pervs though. Besides, until I finish at least third year university, I don't want to get into a heavy relationship as there's a strong correlation between grades and dating and I can't afford to lose my scholarshipsand I figure after you've had sex once, whats to keep you from it as often as possible? And the more sex you have :D the less time you spend on other things/people, because you've formed a relationship based on lust, not personal compatability.

Yes, I'm a virgin and I wouldn't have it any other way. Of course, that doesn't mean that I don't think about sex, or wonder what it's like - and do, lol maybe more so than others. Me and my close friend talk about it all the time and I'm not afraid to admit it - I'm a christian, I'm a virgin but I'm still a healthy human being. Part of the excitement (for me at least) is waiting and knowing that I'm going to be giving my husband a precious gift (virginity is so underrated these days) and that together we'll be able to learn what each other likes - there's no way I can become bored with that! (Not to mention I wouldn't be averse to some kinky stuff) ^_^

well, i would say save your virginity for your husband... I am 25 and I am very proud to say that I am still a virgin. Not many of them out there are anymore. I am not a christian, and I am saving my virginity just for my own sake..and I believe this could be the greatest gift that I could ever give to my husband..Trust me, I just had an experience recently that a guy with all the Qualities come and gone just because of I couldn't have sex with him if i become his gf eventually..guys who are not looking for long-term relationship couldn't wait; so trust yourself and your parents, that's because no one will love us more than them!!

In regards to the response person before last - I agree with quite a few things you said. 1) sex can be a great feeling, 2) maybe their wives WERE boring, 3) we ARE sexual creatures and 4) yes, we need to take care of the one we have. So - enjoy GREAT, NOT BORING sex with your spouse, no regrets, no insecurites! (and regarding anyone who cheats on a spouse, religious leader or not, that is an issue of being faithful, keeping their promise, and having integrity. It is NOT their spouses fault.)

I think maybe u should wait till marriage to have sex because at least then u know if he/she genunally loves u and doesnt just want to use u for sex. Then again if u dont have sex before marriage u wont find out what your partners like in bed. If u where to loose your viginity on your wedding night what if u just didnt connect in bed that would be tragic, and it could ruin the relationship. So maybe u should have sex before marriage lol