i hope you find success louise,and find a job soon,prehaps you will be back here next year with a very different story,lets hope so, good luck

Well, well, theres a certain person who keeps comming up making snipes at everyone she dosent agree with, especially ME! I,ll live with it though. Whats amusing too is some of her comments have also been deleted as they were extremly offensive. Just because i laid down a few bare faced truths NOT concerning LOUISE in particular she feels i want to run Videojug. What a joker HeHeHeHe

louise2008, what are your plans regarding your situation. do you know what you will do? perhaps with some exploring there maybe other forms of financial support? remember to focus on you and your son staying happy as well as financially secure if that makes sense (even if they go together).

Wow a lots happened here since i last looked. While reading though i see Louise stated shes had "nothing but abuse" over this subject....I just wanted to say, i hope you don't feel as though i was having a bash at you in anyway, i just wanted to show that i can relate to what your going though in someways. And i know i caused an uproar by commenting on Sarky but i did apologize. I just wanted to apologize to you personally Louise because since i made the mistake of voicing my opinion on someone else's comment within my own, the situation seems to have spiraled and now everyones doing it! So for this i'm sorry, and i genuinely hope things get sorted out for you.

sarky, my comments to you are finished, i came on this page to advise someone , ---not to play games with someone like you, i have my own thoughts on this matter-- you have yours lets leave it at that.

1948jude; Isaid your comment, WAS YOUR OPINION. I did NOT insinuate that you were not entitled to an opinion only that your views were your opinion. Now if you read through my posts properly i have remarked about single parents IN GENERAL, STASTISICS, apart from MY OPINION on Ezzerkins. The actual question/ headline for this post is; WHY IS IT THAT US SINGLE PARENTS LIVE ON SUCH LOW BENEFITS. THAT IS THE QUESTION CORRECT ME IF IM WRONG!!! You have twisted & turned my comments to suit yourself. I have hardly mentioned Louise herself BUT seeing as this is about how single parents are so hard done by reading from other posts that Louise has posted she drives a car that she has to pay £1000 insurance for, she smokes, she goes to the pub, she,s asked about streetdancing classes in her area. MY POINT IS: are the benefits so low that she would be living in poverty??? The goverment pays any shortfall that she dosent get from the father, so if she were to recieve CSA her benefits would be deducted as you can only recieve what the adjudication officer says you are allowed to live on. My other point was people who DO WORK cannot afford the same lifestyle.

excuse me jo! who said this subject is closed? YOU!! i dont think so. I opened this subject not so that people can act like children. This was about the FATHERS not payin for their children.men keepin all their wages to them selfs and if we are lucky we would only get 10 or 20 pounds. All of a sudden this subject has turned in to a joke!! I came on here to ask for advice, i got nothing but abuse! So what if i was havin unprected sex! Thats my own doin and im glad that i have a healthy son. but at the same time i have learned from passed experiance's as im 4 years older and have my head screwed on!! people make mistakes in their life, im not sayin my son is a mistake far from it! but i was young and nieve! So thats what you like to call it... "I've had a hammerin" Well id say it was more then that... it was insultin, and disrespectful.

So 1948jude, you agree with underage, unprotected sex???. Think enough has been said on this subject, we are all entitled to our views, louise has had a hammering, though it isnt personal. Think we should agree to disagree..

yes sarky thats my opinion,should i not have an opinion.? or is it ,you want to rule the whole site?!!

In your opinion 1984jude