why are there so many retarded people on these boards? anon - stay away from anal, it messes with your backend, wtf?? anal sex done properly can be highly pleasurable for both men and women. lahla - idiot! people have fantasies about many different things, it makes them no less of a person. Purplerose - just because a guy likes anal sex does not mean he is gay. as has been said, straight guys can enjoy anal sex, why not? women can enjoy anal sex, why not? opening your mind and trying new things may open a whole new world to you, and you may wonder why you'd not tried it before. many straight people participate in anal sex, it's normal. talk to him about it, instead of thinking the worst. ask him why he likes it, and he'll probably tell you he loves it. the male g spot is located up that end, which should explain why he likes it... like i said, people on these boards are so retarted when it comes to what they think is not normal, which means you'll never get a proper answer, and could lose the love of your life because you're willing to listen to these retards rather than talk to your partner. communication is always the best thing.

The very thought of licking someones a******e must be one of the grossiest things , SICK

I would stear clear of a guy with those weird fansasies

I just responded and I tihink I may have misinterpreted your question.. if he likes to recieve anal than it could mean a whole lot of things, sometimes the stimulation is just what he likes. Again my husband likes me to play with it b/c it feels good but he is VERY straight. So there's no one way to figure out if he's gay or not. Talk to him and see why he likes it.

Hello, A lot of straight men like to have anal sex. There's nothing really gay about it being gay is liking penis not ass. My husband likes it and a lot of straight men do, many men just wont admit to wanting to try it since they fear dirty looks for their partners. Some people like the idea of it because it is naughtly (my husband gives this as 1 reason and he is VERY straight) some men are just curious about it. Ask your boyfriend/whatever what he likes about it and see if your interested. If he makes u feel gross dont do it. A male friend of a friend told me that he liked anal sex with his ex g/f b/c to him it meant that she could trust him in a really delicate area. He also mentioned that he liked it with a hook up b/c he felt a sort of S and M power trip from being there. See what your guy says. Keep in mind that a lot of people are just curious about different types of sexual sensations and such, try not to embarrass him if u not interested. I do it and I dont really have a problem with it. If your partner is gentle and you dont freak out it can be quite enjoyable, extremely enjoyable just as much as vaginal intercourse for me. The first thing is to decide if you feel comfortable with doing it or not. This wasnt my thing either but after giving it a shot a few times (and freaking out) and having a really comfortable good session with my husband we both enjoy it and we both request it. If you dont want to do it, than dont. Its delicate back there and if he's rough on you or if u are tense and dont loosen up it could really hurt you, make you bleed and give you problems pooping later on. (Kinda lesser than the pain of losing your vierginity) If you want to avoid problems with a blocked bowel I suggest u take a laxative or due an enema a few hrs b4 to make sure your empty.Ivee never felt blocked up... infact I usually have to go to the bathroom later b/c of all of the stimulation. Use plenty of lube and relax. If your not comfortable IT wont be comfortable. He has to be really patient with u and if he is going at an faster or feverish pace call the whole thing off w/o reserve... but he's not gay for liking anal... if he does anything else that's gay being affeminate, commenting on men or even asking for a 3some w/ a male friend, being completely disinteresting in vaginal sex or female parts than u should be concerned. I hope this helped.

Done carefully, slowly and with plenty of lubrication, anal stimulation by a tongue, finger or moderately sized toy will not cause any irreparable harm to yourself or your bowels. Being gay is about being attracted to and wanting to have sex with ONLY men, it's not about whether you like having your prostate stimulated.

Anal sex can be a fun and pleasurable as long as it is done correctly and safely. The anus has ALOT of sensor nerve ending cells that can receive pleasure through friction. Men actually recieves more sexual pleasure from this because they have a prostate gland in their body. How to have anal sex by YOURSELF: It can be accomplished through the use of dildo, sexy toys, fingers, etc. Start off slowly if this is your first time. How to WITH SOMEONE ELSE: Heterosexual men, who are in a relationship, may have their girlfriend wear a strap-on dildo. She may also you sex toys or fingers to pleasure your anus.

im not into it, but he is. someone answer my question please. since this isn't my thing i'm not sure about him.

Keep away from that kinda sex as it will mess up your backend and you bowels will have no control, then theres the embarrassment of going to the docs to try and fix it!!