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Ever thought about going on the Jeremy Kyle show?

Wed, 07 Nov 2007 09:30:00 GMT

Ever thought about going on the Jeremy Kyle show?

Have you ever actually asked him, as in confronted him? It is quit...

Thu, 22 Nov 2007 13:29:20 GMT

Have you ever actually asked him, as in confronted him? It is quite obvious that something has gone very wrong in your relationship. May be you can make an agreement to both try new things - each buy a book on how to please the other and do a different page each week or something of the kind. Otherwise the only other thing I can think of, is that he might not be able to forgive your first affair and hence is trying to treat you the way you treated him to get some sort of strange justice. I have been there and I know that once the initial trust is broken, it is very difficult to patch things back up. If nothing else helps - may be marriage counceling might be in order?

maybe he tried it and realised what hes been missing all these yea...

Fri, 25 Jan 2008 09:54:02 GMT

maybe he tried it and realised what hes been missing all these years. OR is it just he is reluctant to do it with YOU? if so, make yrself more appealing, sexy underwear a wax smell nice and return the favour!

forget it, become gay

Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:21:34 GMT

forget it, become gay

I hate these user-to-user problem discussion forums. This is like ...

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:53:44 GMT

I hate these user-to-user problem discussion forums. This is like asking your neighbor to do your taxes or take out your appendix. The answers are completely unqualified. My response is no more informed than these, but I hate to see this sit here in this state... so consider at least this... is it the fact that it was oral sex not regular sex that bothered you, or the fact that it was in your home, or the fact that it was an infidelity of any kind? I would assume that it would be -- or should be -- the last in that list, most of all. And then the question about his unwillingness for sexual intimacy, too. The extra compounding factor... you have also had an affair. And now he's had one. What a mess. It sounds like you need to deal with the affair and the lack of any kind of intimacy first. Make sure you've asked for and earned your forgiveness for your affair. Talk it out. Then do the same with his infidelity. It was wrong on both your parts and you both need to get that into the open. You need to move past that, with a lot of communication about why you think it happened and why you're each to blame for taking part in the affairs. Your husband, for instance, might not like giving oral sex. But the point is, he did it. With someone other than you. And it was wrong to betray your relationship. Likewise, you did the same 4 years ago and it was wrong. Once you've faced that, then you can talk about the lack of intimacy in your marriage in general, and the lack of certain sexually pleasing behaviors in specific. Solve the general intimacy first. Work on the things that please each of you later. (And for that, you can just get a good book on good sex in marriages). Good luck.

you must decide whether or not you want another 30 years like this...

Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:16:03 GMT

you must decide whether or not you want another 30 years like this or if you want more excitment with soeone else he,s not willing to change

I don't understand your question.. rewrite it in a way that makes ...

Fri, 04 Apr 2008 12:55:12 GMT

I don't understand your question.. rewrite it in a way that makes sense please.

there are obviously problems in your relationship than run much de...

Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:37:54 GMT

there are obviously problems in your relationship than run much deeper, if you have both had affairs. Maybe you should look at why you both had affairs in the first place.

my question was, why would he do something he hates for another wo...

Sat, 05 Apr 2008 17:47:29 GMT

my question was, why would he do something he hates for another woman .He asked me why i was upset .He said because he only did it for a few seconds it wasn't a a big deal. He said i do hate doing it but i tolerated it for her briefly.

Tell him YOU enjoyed oral sex far more with your lover too, and se...

Sun, 06 Apr 2008 14:24:03 GMT

Tell him YOU enjoyed oral sex far more with your lover too, and see how HE feels

hi h r u im ready with u

Wed, 16 Apr 2008 04:08:25 GMT

hi h r u im ready with u

hi i m redy

Wed, 16 Apr 2008 04:09:06 GMT

hi i m redy

he is not worth u my dear thats why dont get disappointed just go ...

Fri, 25 Apr 2008 11:01:37 GMT

he is not worth u my dear thats why dont get disappointed just go ahead find anoither one who matches ur taste ...... dr.emarati