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Asking A Man Out

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Asking A Man Out

Michele Hubatsek (Dating Coach) gives expert video advice on: Is it OK for a woman to ask a man out?; How do I ask for a man's phone number? and more...

Is it OK for a woman to ask a man out?

It's okay for a woman to ask a man out. It's not what I would personally recommend, and I know of a lot of situations where that's happened. Men may find it sexy in the beginning, but it's kind of switched the roles and they may not feel as strong later in the relationship. I don't think it's a good way to set things up. Encourage him to make the move.

Should I give a man my phone number, or try to get his?

Generally, when a woman takes a man's phone number instead of giving out her own, it means she doesn't want him to call. If you're truly interested in him, give him your phone number so that he can make the first move. But remember, give out your cell phone not your home phone number. It's too easy for someone to look you up and know where you live. If you don't know a lot about this man, you don't want him to know where your house is.

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  1. alijadoon

    Its juz Crap its her own speculation i love if a girls ask me out, its shows she's intrested noting wrong in it. you know nothing

  2. gilimiligili

    Michelle you are just too old fashion , you don't like when girls asking out guys , why what's the problem with this. it's perfectly acceptable in 2009 for women to ask men out , and perfectly acceptable for women to ask from a man his phone number . nowdays women work , pay equal in the first date , ask men out on dates and even propose to men. my wife proposed to me in a special dinner. i was so happy about it. what i want to say is that us boys , guys and man loves when girls , gals and women asks out out. it's flattering , sexy and beautiful at the same time.

  3. prettybaby

    I'm sorry but Michele too traditional. I have actually done the exact opposite of basically every point she has discussed here and it has generally worked to my advantage. I like a lot of her videos, but I'm not digging this one.

  4. justwonderful

    even though your post is an year ago, ill write a recommendation, just incase someone happens to be in your situation. - easy, you already have a good situation, your just not getting anything out of it. Next time you meet him, do the exact same thing that you two have been doing, after the conversation is going smoothly, then ask him "So when should we get our drinks" (since you asked him first before, he's prob expecting you to ask him again). if you dont do that, then offer a different alternative, ask him if he wants to grab some grub (i dont really recommend this one) or something that will get you two talking. *remember the longer you wait, the more awkward it will get.

  5. kattan

    I asked a man out for drinks at work and he said he would like that. His schedule has been busy and with Thanksgiving it was impossible. Now that Thanksgiving is done and gone I haven't heard any follow up. We still talk and each and every time we do he stares at me so instense. I have asked him what he's doing for the weekend and he asking mine but nothing in regards to having drinks. What should I do?