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  • How do I know if a woman wants me to ask her out?
  • Can a woman's body language signal whether she wants me to ask her out?
  • How do I get a woman's phone number?
  • Should I give a woman my phone number, or try to get hers?
  • How should I end the interaction after I get a phone number?
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Asking A Woman Out In Person

How do I know if a woman wants me to ask her out?

When you're talking to a woman and you kind of want to get a sense if she's interested in going out with you, listen to what she's saying. If she is asking you a lot of questions, then that's a pretty good sign that she's interested in you in more than just a little conversation. Normally, what you're going to be doing when you're talking to a woman is asking her the questions and listening to her and hearing what she has to say. If she is interested in you and wants to go out with you, she's going to in turn ask you questions, and thus you'll know that there is some level of interest and attraction between you two. If this goes on for an extended period of time, 10, 15, 20 minutes, then definitely, it's within your right to go ahead and go for it and ask her for her number and see if she would like to go out on a date.

Can a woman's body language signal whether she wants me to ask her out?

Now, how do you tell if a woman wants you to ask her out? You never know! The only way is to just ask her if she wants to go out with you. Basically the easiest way is to just get her digits or ask her for her phone number, with the idea that you guys are going to get together. There's no other way to get around it. You obviously can get clues based on her body language - whether she's into you, if she's laughing at your jokes, if she's twirling her hair and smiling at you a bit, those are very clear signals that she's interested in you. But outside of that, there's some shy woman that you might never know if they're interested or not, so the only way to know is to ask her. Again, nothing ventured nothing gained, so you might as well go and ask her.

How do I get a woman's phone number?

The easiest way to score a woman's digits is to ask for them. Its plain and simple. However, I actually suggest that you ask for her email over her phone number. The reason being is that its actually a buffer zone for women. It allows them to feel more comfortable. By giving their email address, they feel like they don't have to talk to you on the phone. If you think the conversation is going great though, and you're definitely hitting it off, by all means, get her phone number. But, to be on the safe side, if you're not quite sure, and you just met the girl and only talked to her for maybe a minute or so, ask for her email address. Most women in general, if they at least think you're not some creepy, crazy guy, are going to give you their email address.

Should I give a woman my phone number, or try to get hers?

There's a great debate, whether you should give a girl your digits or you should get hers. The answer is very simple. Get her phone number. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. When a woman gets your number, you're leaving it in her hands. She has to call you up. A lot of times women will second guess themselves, they'll not be sure ,maybe one of their friends will talk them out of it. They might really like you, her friend may not like you and so she wont call you back. So, definitely keep the ball in your court .Get her phone number so you can call her up when you want to.

How should I end the interaction after I get a phone number?

After you get the girls digits, you could talk to her for a little bit longer, but its really essential that you leave or end the conversation before she does. Its always good to leave them wanting more. You put yourself in a position of power. Remember the principle of least interest. You get her phone number, you thank her, you tell her it was great meeting her, you'll call her soon. And let her know you have to get back to your friends. Do not stay there and dwell on the situation, and put her in the position of power in telling you "Oh, I have to leave and go with my friends".

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Anonymous  (64 days ago)

Don't ask her age!! (unless you suspect shes under 18)

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Anonymous  (64 days ago)

As a girl I'd say you're wrong about getting rather than giving the phone number - give yours and she will often give hers in return - don't just demand hers - if you do, say explicitly that you won;'t hassle her. Women get a lot of psychos and chancers you need to make it clear you're not one of them. Email is a great one to try if you can't get a number. If I'm not sure about a bloke i give my email address, - don't send dodgy porn photos as a joke. We get that quite a lot. Not funny. And to act quietly confident - think about what a decent boyfriend you'd be as you ask

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ateball  (107 days ago)

OMG tank u tank u tank u i've been crushin n a grl for eva nd now I feel like I no how to approach her. TANK U sooooooooooooooooooo much.

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful pintopk  (181 days ago)

u r nothing but a GOD

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful john219  (231 days ago)

again excellent advice

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1 out of 1 person found this comment helpful aescylos  (242 days ago)

I am a big dope

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