Breaking Up

shashasha

the one that caused the hurt and break-up will they miss you

" Wat does'nt kill u only makes u stronger " thats wat i say anyway :]

even from a 14 year old kid's view, i always thought that when you get married or ell someone you love them.....i was suppost to be forever or something.

This video was about breaking a relationship, not divorce! There is a difference - I think that what she states is sound advise, bar the american needs for seeing a therapist for everything, in english that translates to a good druken night out - lol

Breaking up can be one of the most painful experiences in life but it can also be a springboard to learning about yourself in ways you may never have before. Try to focus after the breakup on improving yourself rather than dwelling on your ex. It all comes back to you. If you are happy then others will be around you as well. Read about being codependant. Perhaps I should say ...about not being so codependant. Learn that we each must be whole individuals and that a relationship does not define or complete you. Hopefully a new relationship will have a better chance with both parties keeping it very clear that the relationship is an exstension of both parties.

15 years together married 13 yrs , faithfull, dedicated and worship the ground she walked on. florida at xmas , ibiza for her 40th then ran of wth someone a week later, ords cant describe the pain and your advice dosnt even scratch the surface

If you've been married for 20 years and you break up with this advise, then think again especially if there are children involved

Anon_Girl15

I don't think you should "cushion" him, it'll just be harder to separate from you.

my disabled boyfriend is devistated, I just dont know what to do. I didnt think he cared this much. It just all went wrong, how can I cushion his pain

Great advice, thanks a lot!