VideoJug: comments about Dealing With Exes

She says to get a restrianing order , but you can only get a restr...

Mon, 10 Sep 2007 02:48:31 GMT

She says to get a restrianing order , but you can only get a restraining order if the person is haraasinf you physically. This sucks because we had to put up with months of nasty phone calls and text's and emails. It was frustrating that we could not use the authorities to shut them up.

I want to get back together with my ex, but I don't have a support...

Thu, 25 Oct 2007 22:41:56 GMT

I want to get back together with my ex, but I don't have a support system.

thank you

Mon, 05 Nov 2007 16:26:11 GMT

thank you

i want to get back with my ex but also have no support system in case

Thu, 29 Nov 2007 04:21:27 GMT

i want to get back with my ex but also have no support system in case

I want to get back with my Leopard but she's still got spots. I'm ...

Sat, 01 Dec 2007 20:01:46 GMT

I want to get back with my Leopard but she's still got spots. I'm not sure now. Thanks.

I don't want my ex back she can have him.

Wed, 12 Dec 2007 02:57:38 GMT

I don't want my ex back she can have him.

This is bad advice. Getting a restraining order may escalate the ...

Mon, 24 Dec 2007 05:09:50 GMT

This is bad advice. Getting a restraining order may escalate the problem from one that does not place someone in physical danger, but is annoying and emotionally traumatic, to one that could threaten one's physical safety. Get documentation, Try to discuss this problem in a rational, compassionate manner with an authority figure for the individual - a parent, school counselor, employer, etc... - if appropriate. Run a Internet search of "intrusive conduct" for more advice.

I broke up with my ex a month ago. Traditionally, I just cut all ...

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 22:55:58 GMT

I broke up with my ex a month ago. Traditionally, I just cut all ties and stop all communication, but this time I tried to be "just friends." REALLY bad idea. It sent the wrong message and caused her to not leave me alone. I knew she was not mentally or emotionally stable, but I never thought I would have to call the police because she was banging down my door. Then I had to deal with phone calls and text messages all day and night long. The worst part is we work together, so I also had to deal with getting emails and instant messages at work. I just ignored everything: never picked up the phone, replied to a message, or answered the door. After about 2 weeks she finally left me alone. However, now she is taking a passive aggressive approach by stalking my desk and Outlook calendar at work. The crazy part is that I want to reach out to her more than anything. I want to talk to her and tell her it's going to be OK. I want to hold her and tell her I still love her. I want to be there for her through all the hurt and sadness, but I know I shouldn't. I know she is just a dark cloud that will eventually blow over and I will forget about. What does that mean? I have been through this hurt a few times before, like everyone has, but why does it always hurt so much? Why can't I stop thinking about her and the next guy she is going to be with? Why can't I just move on knowing that I am doing the right thing...

omg! i am so in love with my ex-boyfriend....

Tue, 04 Mar 2008 12:50:23 GMT

omg! i am so in love with my ex-boyfriend....

my ex wants me back but I don't want him i can't just cut him out ...

Sat, 08 Mar 2008 15:08:09 GMT

my ex wants me back but I don't want him i can't just cut him out of my life for two reasons, 1 I worry that he will be violent towards me and 2 we have two children together who absolutely worship him - it's been two years but he still doesn't seem to get it!!!!

My ex is the most retarded-idiot i have ever met, but he's adorabl...

Thu, 03 Apr 2008 07:40:24 GMT

My ex is the most retarded-idiot i have ever met, but he's adorable. I dumped him, we got back together. He dumped me and made me feel like poo. Weeks later he tries talking to me again... He wants to be friends. Apart of me wants to be friends, but i know i'll want to be more and i know i'm gonna get hurt again. this video: not particularly helpful. :(

i broke up with my ex(because he told me to). it hurt really bad b...

Fri, 09 May 2008 23:10:35 GMT

i broke up with my ex(because he told me to). it hurt really bad because i really like him(we were still close friends). a few days later he comes and message me and tell me that he still like he....but still he didn't ask me out...he kept on doing the same thing over and over till one day he got a girlfriend...that really hurt me a lot because he said he like it me and than went out with some other girl..after a month of relationship with his girlfriend he broke up with her and found out that she cheated on him....i was really have happy because they broke up but sad because he was sad...than a few day later he ask me out and i was sooo happy(still am) soo my advice to u is if a relationship is broke don't try to fix it..cause u'll get hurt..but if u have a chance to this person be friends with them first and than make the move(or let her/him do it) =]]

I fell in love with my ex within a month - we broke up because i w...

Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:43:40 GMT

I fell in love with my ex within a month - we broke up because i was moving too fast - we still speak when we see each other (the rale times) but last time in a club he was with his girlfriend and he came over to me but i totally blanked him and i dont know why - i regret this now because i hardly see him and still love him loads! i want him back but how do i make the first step! argh!!!!