Getting Men To Approach Me

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Getting Men To Approach Me

Michele Hubatsek (Dating Coach) gives expert video advice on: How can I indicate I don't want a man to approach me?; How do I politely reject a man who approaches me?; What's the most important thing to look for when a man approaches me? and more...

What should I do when a man approaches me?

The first thing to do when a man approaches you is determine whether you're interested. Is this a conversation that you want to pursue or not? Is this a guy you dig or not? That's the most important thing. So as he approaches you, get a feel for him, see what you think, and then proceed accordingly.

Should I use the 'I have a boyfriend' excuse?

You can use the "I have a boyfriend" or "I am seeing someone right now" excuse. The good part about it is they really will leave you alone usually. The bad part is if he sticks around and is still watching, you may have trouble when you're talking to the guy you may have seen around the corner.

What's the most important thing to look for when a man approaches me?

The most important thing to look for when a man approaches you is that ring or the suntan line. Men have become very clever and you don't always see it, but it's a good idea just to check.