Getting Men To Approach Me
How can I indicate I'd like a man to approach me?
You can indicate that you'd like a man to approach you by smiling, being friendly. Looking away and playing cold is not going to get you anywhere. Be warm, be friendly; be yourself! Have a good time - that's attractive to men!
How can I indicate I don't want a man to approach me?
Let's say you see a guy checking you out but you are definitely not interested. Turn your body away - body language is important - and don't make eye contact again. If you're interested in meeting other men that night, you'll have to keep your eye out and make sure you're not shutting out the rest of the world when you're just shutting out this one guy.
What should I do when a man approaches me?
The first thing to do when a man approaches you is determine whether you're interested. Is this a conversation that you want to pursue or not? Is this a guy you dig or not? That's the most important thing. So as he approaches you, get a feel for him, see what you think, and then proceed accordingly.
How do I politely reject a man who approaches me?
If someone approaches you who you're not interested in, first of all, be kind. You don't want to crush the guy. He doesn't deserve that. Just say you're trying to spend some time with some friends you haven't seen in a while, and then politely turn away. Tell him to have a great night. A lot of women like to use the boyfriend excuse: "I have a boyfriend." If that feels comfortable to you or you want to say there's somebody you're seeing and you want to see where it goes, use that. Just be truthful to yourself and make sure it feels good to you.
Should I use the 'I have a boyfriend' excuse?
You can use the "I have a boyfriend" or "I am seeing someone right now" excuse. The good part about it is they really will leave you alone usually. The bad part is if he sticks around and is still watching, you may have trouble when you're talking to the guy you may have seen around the corner.
What's the most important thing to look for when a man approaches me?
The most important thing to look for when a man approaches you is that ring or the suntan line. Men have become very clever and you don't always see it, but it's a good idea just to check.
