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Getting Men To Approach Me

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Getting Men To Approach Me

Michele Hubatsek (Dating Coach) gives expert video advice on: How can I indicate I don't want a man to approach me?; How do I politely reject a man who approaches me?; What's the most important thing to look for when a man approaches me? and more...

What should I do when a man approaches me?

The first thing to do when a man approaches you is determine whether you're interested. Is this a conversation that you want to pursue or not? Is this a guy you dig or not? That's the most important thing. So as he approaches you, get a feel for him, see what you think, and then proceed accordingly.

Should I use the 'I have a boyfriend' excuse?

You can use the "I have a boyfriend" or "I am seeing someone right now" excuse. The good part about it is they really will leave you alone usually. The bad part is if he sticks around and is still watching, you may have trouble when you're talking to the guy you may have seen around the corner.

What's the most important thing to look for when a man approaches me?

The most important thing to look for when a man approaches you is that ring or the suntan line. Men have become very clever and you don't always see it, but it's a good idea just to check.

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  1. andyxo

    sometimes they can be sneaky and cover it up lol but deff. agree with the line

  2. meligonlan

    Kmel I agree of course she's talking about the suntan line when he removes the ring.

  3. kmel

    "Suntan line" is refering to when a married man has removed his wedding ring. There may be a white line on his finger where the ring should be.

  4. jontycampbell

    The ring line thing is flawed as some men don't wear wedding rings at all, or wear it on a chain. Plus the 'I have a boyfriend' line is rude and presumptious and there's a flirty comeback that answers it ! Many men talk with a woman for a while TO FIND OUT if she's a suitable candidate IN THE FIRST PLACE, or because he's bored and just wishes to be sociable and is seeing if he would enjoy your company for a while. If you're going to use the "B***hy Shield" that just puts out snooty bad vibes which will keep all the good men away anyway - guys like good natured, warm women, not someone who breaks their balls. FIRST IMPRESSIONS! If a guy flirts with you and you don't fancy him it's very simple - just dont flirt back!

  5. Angst138

    If they usually wear a wedding ring and aren't when they go out to cheat on their wives, the skin where the ring usually rests will be considerably lighter than the rest of their hand.

  6. ParadiseDevil

    I have a boyfriend excuse isn't really working in my situations cause they ask me if i don't want another one

  7. Anonymous

    I know right hat is a suntan line?

  8. Anonymous

    The line you get from wearing a wedding ring for years - a divorced, separated or cheating person will have a suntan line around their ring finger.

  9. artzypantz

    I don't get it...what suntan line?