How To Act If Your Spouse Is Ambivalent About Stopping Their Affair

What do I do if my spouse is ambivalent about stopping his or her affair?

If your partner, your spouse, is ambivalent about stopping the affair, there's nowhere to go. That affair must stop. If your partner is wavering going “Well, can't I have both?" Unless you're okay with renegotiating you're contract, and you may be, maybe what you have and you want a little more, then renegotiate the contract. And its maybe not infidelity anymore because you're both on the same page, but if you're expecting to rebuild your relationship. You want to rebuild closeness and trust and intimacy: you're partner must end the affair. It's the only way for your relationship to begin again.