How To Avoid Explosive Arguments In Your Relationship
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How To Avoid Explosive Arguments In Your Relationship
Philip Van Munching (Author) gives expert video advice on: How can I avoid explosive arguments in my relationship?
How can I avoid explosive arguments in my relationship?
When I was a kid, we had the TV show "Mission Impossible". It started every week with a line of gunpowder that was slowly going towards the bomb and the explosion. Arguments feel like that, and the way you break that gunpowder line so the bomb doesn't go off is you avoid certain things. Here are two big triggers for explosive arguments: Always and never. People don't "always" do anything, and they don't "never" do anything. So when you use absolutes like that, you make your partner feel like you're being completely unreasonable, and it tends to set them off.