How To Avoid The Most Common Mistakes Parents Make When Disciplining Children

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How To Avoid The Most Common Mistakes Parents Make When Disciplining Children

Jayne Major, Ph.D. (Parenting Educator & Child Custody Consultant, Breakthrough Parenting Services, Inc. ) gives expert video advice on: What are the most common mistakes parents make when disciplining children?

What are the most common mistakes parents make when disciplining children?

Common mistakes that parents make in disciplining children is to get overly involved in their emotions. When the emotions are carrying the day, you're in drama, and you're not really solving problems with discipline. So, if the parent is starting to get emotional, and upset or is already, that's not a good time be doing discipline and teaching because the override of the emotions. So, that's time for a time-out. The parent needs to take a time-out, the child take a time-out, then you go back to it. Time-out is you calm down, you relax, and then you get into your thinking mind, your logical mind and solve problems, explain things, and discipline the child. Children want to cooperate with us. And the reason they don't is because we don't know how to elicit that cooperation from them. It's us, we need to get a grip on the best approach in the situation. And parents are astonished at how fast they can move from struggle to cooperation with their children when they are using better and better methods of communication to instil discipline.