How To Avoid Your Spouse Discovering If You Have Cheated On Him Or Her

How can I avoid my spouse discovering I cheated on him or her?

You cheated, you swear it's only once, and then you don't want to get caught. Okay, then it's probably not a good idea to be talking about it. You have to pray that nobody saw you when you did it. I think it's really important to take a personal inventory on why you did it. If it's because you got drunk and "Whoops!"; you'd better not do that again because that's vulnerability. If you're on a business trip and someone came up and solicited you and you thought “Ah, why not?”; now you know why not. So, the deal is whoever you did it with; have no more contact with that person. You need to make a really strong deal with yourself, and silently with your spouse, that you're not going to do that anymore.