How To Be Romantic In Your Marriage When You Can't Find The Time

What can we do if we can't find time to be romantic?

So many couples say to me, "There is no time for romance in our busy life." Do you know what I say? I say, "Hogwash." If you get twenty seconds, you can do a ten second kiss and a ten second hug, and you are going to make that contact. Let's say you are driving and stop at the red light. Are you going to stare at the light or the traffic? How about touching each others hand? How about leaning over each other and giving a kiss at every red light? That could be really romantic. Have a dinner, and will you reach out for a bread basket or do you reach over the table for each other? Romance doesn't mean that it takes lot of time; it is the intention and the desire which will feel really romantic in your marriage.