How To Be Supportive When Someone Cancels A Wedding

How can I be supportive when someone cancels a wedding?

Don't try to give examples of someone else that you know that was thinking about cancelling or did cancel. And definitely don't try to set that person up with someone. I had one gal once who said I cancelled the wedding and then everyone tried to set me up on a blind date. And, realistically they just didn't realize that they needed some grieving time. Basically when you cancel a wedding it's the worst break-up of your life because you've gone through the emotional journey of saying, "I can see myself spending the rest of my life with you," and basically being selfless in so many ways and giving to you and starting a family with you and really combining our lives. So realistically it is going to be the worst break-up you ever have. And friends and family can be supportive by just being there and just saying, "I'm here for you, how can I help maybe cancel your plans and how can I help by being a confidant and a friend" and definitely not passing gossip around because cancelling a wedding is going to be emotionally scarring for anyone and it's definitely going to take time to get over.