How To Best Cope With A Victim In A Divorce

What is a "victim" in a divorce and how do I best cope with one?

The victim is the one (generally a false victim) who seeks to win by having themselves pitied. We've all heard the real or apocryphal story of a person murdering her parents, and then asking for pity by the judge because she's an orphan. That's an example of a "victim" in this case.