How To Change Your Negative Relationship Patterns

How do I change my negative relationship patterns?

The thing about your patterns is you'll never really change them but you can break them. You can't just make yourself bend a little, but you can say, "OK, now I've got a choice. I've always been attracted to people who are a certain way. Here's my choice, I can decide, OK for the rest of my life I'm only going to go out with those types of people which will probably lead to lousy relationships or I can consciously say, I'm going to break my pattern, find somebody that I maybe less attracted to, but who seems better for me in other ways.” And that's really what you do with your patterns.