How To Create A Sensual Environment For Sex With Your Spouse
How To Create A Sensual Environment For Sex With Your Spouse
Sheri Meyers (Marriage and Family Therapist) gives expert video advice on: How can I create a sensual environment for sex?
How can I create a sensual environment for sex?
I am often asked, "How essential is it to create a sensual environment?" Some people complain, "Oh, it's a lot of work, we don't have time." But think about it. An environment that's conducive to making love. It's the way you separate your day. It's the way that you can leave the office behind; it's the way that you can leave parenthood behind. It's the way that you can say, “Ah, it's time for love." It's lover time. There are things you can do to create an environment that doesn't take a lot of time or work. Light a candle. We are conditioned through movies and TV shows that candle light and roaring fires are equal to romance. Light some candles. It changes the light and you also both look really good in candle light, which inspires the visual. Make the room smell good. There's something about the aura factory sense that goes to a different part of our brain. It goes to a more primal part of our brain that is much more conducive to sex and sexuality. Put on some soft sounds to create a sensual environment, sounds that separate you from the rest of the day. Bring things into the room that you can taste and you can feed each other. By awakening your senses, it awakens your body and all the senses for pleasure.