How To Encourage People Not To Take Sides In Your Divorce

How do we encourage people to not take sides in our divorce?

Family and friends won't take sides in divorce if you don't ask them to. They'll only take the sides if you demand it. For example, if you say, "Don't invite John to the birthday party. Don't invite John to the wedding because he's going to bring that girlfriend." Once you do that, you are affecting his relationship with everyone else. So if you don't want to do that, all you have to do is not involve him in the process.