How To Handle Showers That Other People Are Hosting For You If You Have Cancelled Your Wedding

How do I handle showers that other people are hosting for me if I cancel my wedding?

If someone else is throwing you a shower, again, if someone is investing money into a wedding that you are deciding to cancel, it is appropriate, if you financially can do it, to give them compensation for what they have spent. Most people will not want you to. They will understand that what you are going through is worth a lot more than any cost that they could have acquired due to a shower or something. And often the person who is hosting the shower, or has hosted the shower, if you decide to cancel, they are probably your best bet on helping you get those gifts back to those people, and also passing the word that you are not going to be having a wedding anymore.