How To Know If It's Cold Feet Or If You Really Want To Cancel Your Wedding

How To Know If It's Cold Feet Or If You Really Want To Cancel Your Wedding

How do I know if it's cold feet or if I really want to cancel my wedding?

Realistically, if you have any inclination that you feel like you're getting cold feet - and nobody can really tell you what cold feet feels like - just take a break from wedding planning. Just say "I'm going to take a break." Explain to your fiance, to him or her, "You know what? Let's just take a little breather. Let's spend more time together." Usually couples will say, "I feel like we haven't spent any time together because all we do is talk about the wedding, and all we do is call everyone else who is involved in the wedding planning." So just take a break together. And realistically, then you'll be able to discover was it cold feet or is it that I'm really not ready to get married and this is not the right person? And maybe that break will be a month, maybe it will be a year, maybe it will be a week, maybe it will be a day. Who knows? But if you really step back and just give yourself some time, time usually is the problem solver.