How To Know If You Are Gay

How do I know I'm gay?

Don't declare your major until you're through your adolescence. I mean you can have all kinds of funny feeling about same sex attractions that can wax and wane, become fixed or not. Just sit with feelings, don't act on them when your in adolescence. And that's my main message is, whatever it is, it's going to play, it's going to figure itself out, whether gay or straight, whatever. But by acting on it, you're only going to add to the confusion and the intensity of your feelings until later.