How To Know If Your Marriage Is Vulnerable To Infidelity

How do I know if my marriage is vulnerable to infidelity?

There are some vulnerabilities that can lead you or your partner to an affair. Lets look at the personal ones first. The personal vulnerabilities are who you hanging out with? If your hanging out with a lot of single friends going to places where there is a lot of single people, thats vulnerable! If your relationship at home is not neccessarily connecting or communicating, that is vulnerability. If you are working late hours and developing deep friendships with co-workers of the opposite sex; that's another vulnerability. If your relationship has suddenly turned more child centered, and suddenly all your focus is towards the family and there is not a lot going towards each other; that can make one or both of you vulnerable to seeking attention outside the relationship. Take a look at your sex life, are you feeling it? Are you spending time together intimately. If not, that could pose a vulnerablitilty where you seek those needs outside. These are just a few of the vulnerabilities that can weaken your relationship and open you up to seeking your needs outside.