How To Know What The Most Important Thing To Do Is When Your Child Misbehaves

What is the most important thing I should do when my child misbehaves?

When a child misbehaves regardless of the age of the child, we're back to that what you see above the water is the behavior and something the child's doing and you're interpreting as misbehaving. It's extremely important to get underneath that and find out the thoughts feelings and needs of the child that is misbehaving. Then once you understand the thoughts feelings and needs about that behavior, say, Jimmy, we need to make a plan or you need to make a plan so you can fix this and I like to know what your plan is.