How To Let Him Know You Want A Long Term Relationship Without Scaring Him Off

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How To Let Him Know You Want A Long Term Relationship Without Scaring Him Off

Lisa Clampitt (Matchmaker) gives expert video advice on: How do I let him know I want a long-tem relationship, without scaring him off?

How do I let him know I want a long-tem relationship, without scaring him off?

I think that men want relationships as much as women do, so they myth of scaring a man off because you want a relationship is just that ... it's a myth. So, ultimately, get to know each other, go on a couple dates, and if this is someone you want a relationship with, talk about your relationship goals. Let them know that you want a relationship that leads to marriage and kids. Is that something that he wants in addition? Is that someone who's going to be right for you. You shouldn't be afraid to make sure that you're on the same page in terms of relationship goals because, I think what happens is, people are really afraid of saying what they need, and six months down the line, you see that this guy has no intention of ever getting married or having kids, and you're not going to change that. So find that out ahead of time.