How To Make Big Decisions

How To Make Big Decisions

How do you make big decisions?

I would always say that when I make decisions, and this sometimes surprises people, because they think of me, if not as an intellectual, certainly as some sort of poncy person who uses long words a lot, and possibly therefore analytical, I think feelings is always held primacy in making decisions, they always do. So it's really that problem I've mentioned before on one that you run up against all the time in life, is identifying your own feelings to make decisions. It's so odd you'd think you'd be able to more easily than identify what you know, but its a lot easier to know what you know than it is to know what you feel. Am I happy at this moment? Would I be happy doing that? Do I feel ashamed of this? Or is it embarrassment? Is it guilt? There are different things, different feelings. What am I really feeling? Am I really angry with this person, or do just think I ought to be angry and therefore I'm puffed up in this faux anger? Very hard to say. Do I love this person? Hell, that's the hardest one of all. Do I want to be loved, more than I want to love? All these questions. Absolute, they're the ones, the only ones really, that matter to one.