How To Teach Your Spouse What You Want In Bed

How can I teach my spouse what I want in bed?

No matter how long we've been together, how long we've been married, our bodies and our desires keep changing. How do you teach your partner what turns you on? How do you teach your partner what pleases you? Often, we assume our partner knows, or should know, and that's how we end up so dissatisfied with our sex life. Or, it's because we don't know ourselves what turns us on and we're expecting them to find out for us. First we have to know ourselves, and know what our turn-ons are, and we might discover that together. Here's a simple game that you both can play in order to teach and learn. It's called Show and Tell, and literally, it is that. It's showing your partner what turns you on and giving feedback as to what you like and what you don't like. Demonstrate on your partner's body ways you like to be touched, stroked and kissed. Then have your partner show you on your body what they've taken in. "Oh, so you like to be touched in this way?" Use verbal communication; this is a time you can use verbal skills because if you start talking about, "Ooh yeah, I really like that. Ooh that feels good" - guess what? It's going to heat things up. Show and tell is a really fun game. It's a great way to get energy moving between you, and it's also a great way to learn about your partner in a whole new way.