How To Tell A Guy That He Is Not Pleasing You
How do I tell a guy he's not pleasing me?
How do you tell a guy that he's not pleasing you in bed? Guys have very fragile egos when it comes down to their sexual prowess. A lot of guys think and believe that they are amazing lovers. So what you need to do, is once again tell him very nicely “Hey look, I love what you're doing, it feels great, but can you do this a little bit more because it's my favorite? Or could you take my hands and touch me in a certain way because it's my favorite? Or I might, during sex move your mouth in a different direction because you just hit that spot and I want to feel it even more. Tell him in a very encouraging kind of way because men like to be encouraged. So encourage him a little bit. Show him, maybe physically show him certain things on your body in a way they like to be touched because men are mesmerized when women show them certain things. Keep the conversation open. The quicker you tell him what you like, the easier it is. If you wait six months and he thinks he's been pleasing you for six months and then all of a sudden you bring this conversation up, he's going to feel betrayed, he's going to feel that he's never been pleasing you, he's going to be angry, he's going to be annoyed. The second you start fooling around with a guy is the second you start telling him what you like. “God I really like it when you do this and I really love when you lick the inside of my ear it really turns me on.” We want to know, we want to be encouraged. Trust me on this one, the quicker it is, the easier it's going to be.
