Rob Gray (Mortgage Consultant, Pick-Up Artist) gives expert video advice on: How can I develop a strategy for seducing women?; Should I have a routine to pick up women?; Whats the key to strategy when seducing women? and more...
Should I have a routine to pick up women?
I would say you definitely have to have some type of routine in the beginning. As you start to get more and more practice, you'll understand what works for you and what doesn't. Go for a routine. People feel more comfortable with that and you will be more comfortable with that. It'll be easier for you.
Whats the key to strategy when seducing women?
You've got to think of the next line of what you're going to say. It's almost like playing chess. You already automatically have to know what move you're going to make next. That's totally key right there.
How can I stand out when there are other men trying to seduce the same women?
First of all, you make them look like an idiot, you know? Walking around and saying you are hot babe and grinding and groping. You are going to do just the opposite. You are going to listen to them. You are going to talk to them. You are going to be funny. Girls love to laugh and so you are going to be doing exactly the opposite of what they are doing. A lot of times they are just making a fool out of themselves. Talk about some cool stuff. Talk about whatever is on your mind versus. Ask them more open ended questions is probably another big thing. So ask them, you know let them speak. The more that they talk, girls love to talk. You let them talk and talk and talk. You just listen.
Why is technique important in seducing a woman?
Techniques are like tools. If you're a handyman you're going to need tools to fix things. It's just like if you're a pick up artist, or you're trying to seduce a woman, you have to have these tools to make yourself a higher value, to make yourself approachable and all this stuff. Again, it's tools that you're using.
Should I be cocky and funny if I'm trying to seduce a woman?
When you're cocky and you're funny about it, that's where they feel like “This guy is kind of cool. He's cool and he's funny about it.” It's kind of like, you know, sugar and salt, they really go together, you know what I'm saying. It's the same kind of concept, you know, you got to be funny and you got to be cocky at the same time.