Sex Games And Fun In The Bedroom
What is phone sex?
Phone sex is a form of sexual activity via the phone. It is in essence talking dirty to somebody - either your partner, or sometimes it will be paid for via a phone sex line, in which you explore fantasies on the phone. It's a form of foreplay for a lot of people, or it can be a substitute for sex altogether if you can't physically be together. It's quite useful if you happen to have several thousand miles between you.
I love talking dirty, why is that?
Talking dirty is a way of expressing your imagination. For some people, but not for everybody, it is much easier than it is for others, and many find it a turn-on to actually use a lot of rude words or words that people consider rude. There are different forms of talking dirty - some are just to suggest ideas of doing things and for other people it's about saying certain words. It is one of those mechanisms that just makes them have a sexual buzz by using it. it is hard to explain why some people like to talk dirty, but a lot do and it's quite normal, so don't worry about it.
My partner talks dirty during sex, am I right to feel offended?
You can feel offended by your partner talking dirty to you if it becomes repetitive and you feel that your partners disconnected from you in using it, or that they have to use it all the time in order to get themselves off. Otherwise, I wouldn't feel offended. It's like fantasy, something which is not directed at you personally, the language. It's something simply which they find a turn-on. If you do feel offended, talk to your partner and tell them to tone it down or use it a bit less.
I want to join the mile high club, what is it all about?
Joining the mile high club seems to be one of those ambitions that seems to have a lot of longevity because people have been talking about it, probably since they invented planes. Joining the mile high club is simply having sex in an airplane. There are a number of ways to do it. You can go squeeze yourself into the toilet on the airplane with another person and have sex. It also qualifies if you masturbate on an airplane or give someone a handjob or a blowjob while in your seat on an airplane. All of these things have been done, and you could in all cases say that you've joined the mile high club.
Why do you think people want to join the mile high club?
People want to join the mile high club because they are in such a confined space with a lot of people, most of whom they don't know, and it's the thrill or fear of being caught.
Why do some people want to be blindfolded during sex?
Being blindfolded during sex is pleasurable for a lot of people because it cuts off one of your senses, and by cutting off one of your senses you heighten the others. Your sense of hearing, taste, smell and touch will be heightened. It also adds a sense of mystery, and you're not quite sure what's going on around you. Some people like that kind of connection between fear and pleasure. Blindfolding is an easy way to get both.
What are sex games?
Sex games can take several forms. The main form is role playing. You can have play fantasies, in which you can be different people. You can play sex games in public through role playing. You can go to a hotel and pretend that you're strangers and you've never met. All of these are forms of sex games. There are games as well, that are actual games - board games, but it is what I would call a simplistic form of a sex game. When people talk about sex games, they're mostly talking about role playing in the bedroom or in some other place.
