ok...now here is the real deal...It depends what you want out of it. For instasnce, if you want an exclusive relationship with this guy; meaning just u and him and noone else, then I would say u could probly forget it. Thats because by what i'm reading from u, it appears he doesn't wanna be "tied" down with just one girl. Specially guys in that age group, they just wanna sleep around and rather have multiple girls, and zero commitment, I say that from experience. If he messages u from msn, its just another way to real you in to see if you bite. Now being that he is ignoring u for the most part in public is most likely because he doesn't want the other girls he is probly after to notice it, cuz that would not be good as he will be considered a "player". Now if u wanna just have a casual no commitment relationship where the main goal in any guys mind to get u in bed, then move on to the next girl and use you, then thats the other option. You see guys for the most part just wanna have it both ways, get u in bed do you, and not commit. Most guys don't wanna be tied down, although there are few who are mature enough to realize it that it could be worth being in an exclusive relationship. Jumping into bed is shouldn't be always the goal or the driven force behind relationship, that stuff could come later. Which by the way is more rewarding. But that just by driball....u decide. My suggestion, if he really likes u he will wait patiently until you're ready to give it to him, preferably after marriage, i know it sounds old. But i can tell you is far better to wait in at so many levels.
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