Jaynee's Comments

there are obviously problems in your relationship than run much deeper, if you have both had affairs. Maybe you should look at why you both had affairs in the first place.

in answer to some of your replies. it is not the 1st time, but before his anger was directed at me. 10 years ago he was diagnosed with depression and alcholism, 5 years ago the diagnoses changed to Bi Polar disorder. 3 months ago the diagnoses changed to emotionally unstable personality disorder. He is now on anti psycotic drugs. I did love him, but i dont think i do any more. the kids love him (and hate him too). I know i have to leave for the kids sake, also mine) at the moment i have no social life as i cannot leave him with the kids for more than a few minutes.

he has been diagnosed as having a personality disorde. prior to that he was dianised with bi polar disorder. the behaviour isnt new but was always aimed at me before, now the kids are in the fireing line. i dont want to cause them upheaval, but i dont want to put them at risk. you ask if i love him yes i do but i love the kids more