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definitely NO, you will give the child the wrong impression and if the dad is doing it, I would stop the visit and tell him that when the child is over that it is suppose to be quality time for dad and child with no girlfriends around. As far as the bed, the child needs his own room and bed to sleep in.
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If your divorcing your spouse and still having sex with him, you need to find a hobby to keep you busy and stay away from him. He's not worth it, believe me I know. I was divorced for 8 years and we had a son together and I went out of my way to make sure that my son knew his father and we always had sex when we were together no matter if he had a girlfriend or not. It didnt matter to either one of us. I guess I kept doing it because of the bond of having a child together. Well I gave up alot for him and in the end the only person that it hurt was me. My son now is 25 and he hates his father for never being around so end it now and find someone else who will love you for you and not use you for just a piece of ass.
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you need to make a decision about you and him. Do you love him? Do you get tired feeling second best and knowing that he is having sex with someone else besides you? Figure out what is more important your happiness or feeling second best? I would leave because I know that I would be the best thing that he ever lost.
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when you were married you both promised each other to love, honor until death do you part. So if he really loves you, he should love you under no circumstances that may change in your marriage. Having children doesnt give you a reason to keep the weight on, you can still loose it no matter how many children you have. Coming from a mom of having 4 children I have gained about 10 pounds after 18 years of marriage and my husband tells me how sexy I am all the time.
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yes, my husband and I have been married for 18 years and I knew him only 3 months before we were married, got pregnant 3 months later and had our first child. We now have 4 children
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I cheated one time on my husband but had sex twice with the guy that I was seeing. I did it just to get back at my husband for accusing me of having an affair. I put up with it for a year and one night getting off work early I met someone and had sex. I enjoyed it knowing that someone else could be attracted to me but also proving to my husband that if I was being accused of sleeping around why not do it! Well at the time I was unhappy and wanted to give my husband a reason to give me a divorce so when I told him that I did it ( he thought that I was drinking at the time and I was still in my right mind when it happened) so he forgave me and said I didnt know what I was doing at the time.
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